Transference may not be at work here, but there may be something affecting the work, your there to be present for the client, if that requires a little encouragement to get you to the end of the thought process then it's ok, but if there is any counter transference at play, your progress as a client is been jeopardised and that work your doing on yourself will most likely be with you a lot longer than the t, so what's more important to you long term, that's what I'd ask myself, plenty of red dresses out there to flirt with for free, and