We can have a "healthy" fear as long as we have hope. It can be exciting.
Going out on your own can be very exciting -- being your own "boss" and living as you want to live.

Change can be great! Things change all the time, and most of the time we aren't even aware of it. LOL Wouldn't it be great too have your own place? Or do you already? Are you living on your own?

I always feared losing my parents too. And it happened. I lost my Dad in 1990 and my Mom in 2003. Naturally I was devastated, but i lived thru it. Sometimes, even at MY age (63) I feel like an orphan! Isn't that silly? But you're NEVER too old to miss your parents. You'll always wish you could ask or tell them something. But you can still "talk" to them. I'm sure they hear us.

You know, regardless if our life turns out the way our dreams show it -- life is STILL wonderful and exciting. Wonderful things happen all the time, and the world is beautiful. Sure, bad things happen, but they happen to everyone. We're not "special." We aren't picked on. You have to take life a day at a time, because yesterday is gone, and tomorrow isn't here yet.

Enjoy what you have. Life is a GIFT. Live it that way. Don't be afraid of it. Most people are kind, helpful, and considerate, as long as we treat THEM the same. Please don't fear it. We only go this way once. God bless you and please take care. Hugs, Lee