Frustrated Leed is absolutely correct. To save things you guys need T. You alone could benefit from T. What a small investment if it saves your marriage. After a T sees that you are serious and are going to stick w/ them they can sometimes cut you some slack financially. I payed for mine at one time w/ rolls of quarters. I paid what I was supposed to for a few sessions and was upfront about not having the money to continue. I saved my change and paid every time I got a roll of quarters. The T gave us price breaks, a free session for my B-Day, mothers day, Christmas. She was able to write some of it off as a credit because she was helping those who could not pay. It took me about a year of saving all my change to pay her completely off. It was so worth every quarter dime and nickle. It saved my quality of life at the time. Now my H goes and we are getting stronger together.

It is a worthy investment. If things do not work out with you and your wife the same issues you have now will only follow you to the next relationship. If you are gonna pay 1000 for a week long vacation why not pay 1000 to save your marriage. One week vs forever. You tell me.