he knows i left becuase he was mean to me, so as long as he is kind we dont have a problem, but i think he knows he can trust me as long as he is nice, other wise its his fault, but he struggled for a while he couldnt beleive i left him, hard knock to his slef image i guess, then he realised that other men wouldnt mind taking me either, lol, and that if he wasnt cool i would have no problem leaving but i think we tried to make it work for the kids, you know? And it seemed to be better then all of a sudden he started being s jerk again, idk, well see