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Originally Posted by LilMercy
Everyone relates and deals with death different, there is nothing wrong with how you cope and deal with it.
I myself have dealt with sudden deaths in the last 2 years....it took me 6 months to cry over one and the other I still havent cried or anything over...I find I tell myself alot they are just on vacation and not coming home.
If it doesnt bother you and you knwo your coping with it in your own way. I wouldnt worry
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i really like the vacation analigy.. and i'll tell you why
1 of my friends who died a couple of years ago... his last words on his death bed were, welcome to my long vacation... and since then, i've always pictured our love ones are just on vacation, listening to us, looking at us, and enjoying themselves at a 5 star resort... no pain, no suffering, nothing.
does that sound bad?
as for how i cope with death, i find myself greeving more for celebrity deaths, then i do deaths of people close to me.
grandad.... bethany.... my grandma, etc, yes, it was sad- maybe i was upset for a while- but it didon't last long.
as someone said it's like okay they are gone, their not coming back, move on
but when it comes to amy winehouse, michael jackson, witney heuston, it's a totally diffrent story.... totally
i rmember when michael jackson died, i took all my posters down (my posters wern't michael related) but took them down anyway, stopped listening to his music fir a whole year, and cry over him for hours and hours at a time
people used to say to me... why are you crying so bad over michael jackson?
and i couldn't tell them... i didon't know
witney heuston as well... i wasn't at all a fan of her music, but her death hit me so hard
what's up with that?
it's like close family and celebrities switched places....?