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Jan 28, 2013, 01:57 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by Eliza Jane
I'm not sure that reclaiming some power is a totally bad motivation. Reclaiming power is different from intending to harm. I had a college prof who encouraged us to be honest on our course evaluations because it was our "counter control" (yeah, with that sort of phrasing she was a psych prof). If we were unable to speak up in any way, people in power (doctors, professors, elected officials) can do whatever they want to us.
I know Ex-pdoc will never see the review and even if he did, he is such a raging narcissist he wouldn't care. I know I couldn't hurt him. I'd do it to make me feel better and warn others.
Let me know if you end up doing it, Syra.
Best,
EJ
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Thanks EJ. You make a good point about reclaiming power vs. intending harm.
I like your psych prof.
I imagine if I wrote one and she found out, she would wince, and then see it as further evidence of my problems. But I really don't know. 
Funny thing happened - I thought of writing one for my current therapist who I think is very very good. And I couldn't click on the submit. I'm not sure why. Maybe afraid of things turning sour again (which I highly doubt. I had red flags last time, and no red flags this time). Maybe embarrassed to be fawning. I don't know.
Did you end up writing one? Has anyone written a negative review? What did it feel like?
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