Sunrise thank you so much. I will certinly look into collaborative divorce. I have not worked in 15 years. We agreed the children needed there mother at home. My H's work has been our only source of income. He is a smell business owner. Long ago his business was set up to make sure the wives of the shareholders didn't get there hands on any of the businesses assets. Since then 2 of the 3 share holders have gone threw divorce.

One wife wanted no part of the business it was failing at the time. The 2nd wife fot the business to keep her on insurance for the next 5 years but was able to take some of the businesses earnings. I don't want to touch my H's business. I'd like to keep the insurance if possible. The business is his livelyhood. I didn't work for it and I don't want a take of it. That would just not be right.