i know that feeling of not eating. have just been recently in that situation, so i know where you are coming from.

the flashbacks are occuring now because it is letting you be aware that your body is now ready to deal with this "abuse" (i suppose you could call it that) you endured as a child. somethings happen to us when we are young that we forget about for a majority of our lives, then one day, it will begin creeping back into our memories, in your case flashbacks. as long as you continue to talk about how those situations made you feel and what you feel now about them, slowloy you can work your way through these flashbacks and they will disappear. it is definately a good sign that you are now ready to confront these feelings and deal with them accordingly. well done for speaking out about them, thats the first step.

try doing what myself said, and create the flashbacks. this will help you focus on them and that will help in the healing process.

take care and let me know how things go with it ok. im here if you need a chat.

simon