I understand the way that you feel. I bet anything that in his mind it is not a big deal and that's why he is acting in such a way about it. He prolly has no idea that it is a big deal. I do this, then I'm surprised when I find out it is a big deal. drives my wife nuts. but if it makes you feel any better.... it's more of a guy thing than anything else. I'm sorry that it hurt you.