I ended it today. Told him I knew he called her and that after the things he said to me last night and how he treated me this morning I had enough and was officially done with it all. Of course he still cussed me and told me I was crazy and that he was sick of my accusations. I just said Goodbye. Left it at that. Last night he told me he doesn't want to deal with a bipolar person, that it wasn't his problem and he doesn't want someone with it in his life. And this morning when I showed up at the hotel I had gotten for us when I got off of work, he was in his truck and as I walked up to the window he yelled, I'm late and peeled outta there just leaving me standing there in sleet and rain. So that was definitely the straw that broke the camels back. time to grow up and move on from that mess. Thank you all for your advice. It helped so much. hopefully I can be at peace and just start working on myself for once in my life.