If you are living with someone who satisfies 3 or more of these characteristics it is important to know that they are unlikely to change. This is often hard for people to believe, because after all, we all know that people can change. But, changing our core personality, the fundamental stuff that makes us who we are, doesn't tend to change in any significant way over a life time.
It's a bit like changing your sense of humour. If you don't find something funny, it's very difficult to find a way to make it funny. So, how best to cope?