esp is extra sensory perseption...sort of like a sixth sense...means you can feel things before they happen....with my daughter she never knows when it is going to happen...I mean it isn't something she can just concentrate on and then it will happen...she never knows when it will happen...sounds like you are like that too...other people will just say it was a coincidence...but checking the door with the spider? sounds more like esp to me...sometimes I will be thinking of her and the phone rings...she says mom I know you wanted me to call...lol I still think it is cool...!!!! Enjoy it!!!