OMG girl you sounf just like me this about the secong post im reading, when I left my ex bf becuase i thought i had found out he went back to his wife, I flipped out, I mean I just left my husband for us to live happily ever after!!! Right? So i bloaacke dhim freaked out knew i was doing the right thing, then flet rejected when he didnt respond to my beck and call! I worte him a letter telling him it was over blah blah, but i never meant it I just wanted to hurt him the way he ahd hurt me, then on top of that I called his wife, YEP I GOT SOME BALLS, and i went off on her *** and told her she was lucky that i wasnt close or i would harm her, and she has known me since i was 12 so she knew i wasnt messing, but of course me and my hubby worked it all out, GUESS WHO didn mek it work, YEP you guessed it and guess who came crawling back to me YEP my ex BF, I played with him a little mroe, just to find out the truth, then dumped and I have absoulutly no feeling for him at all, pretty cool huh? BTW your ex sounds exaclty like mine would send me music and such