It's nobody's business. Even if the world were perfect, I would not wish to divulge serious and personal information to a stranger. If I did, then it would be in passing to make some other point, and I would not get seriously into my feelings.

I also feel that my problems are my own to deal with. I will sometimes talk to my friends and accept the support they offer, but I would not jump into something like that without them offering to lend an ear first. It would feel quite presumptuous.