I am ok with it... mainly cuz I am usually very laid back about things happening around the house and it keeps my wife happy and the family more stable. I do go to extremes... not just a lot but most of the time. so it would be fair to say that if I was given more freedom, I would cause some major instability within the family and prolly end up doing what my wife calls 'checking out', meaning that my mind is gone and i am only physically there.

the rules are good cuz they keep me here. and they protect my two kids from my insanity lol.