Hi penna,
thanks, that's a couple things I hadnt thought of before. So lets say youre this nice guy and youre looking for a girlfriend, and all the women you meet have been abused by thier parents and former boyfriends. After hundreds of nice guy approaches, wouldnt you start to think maybe youre not a big enough [censored]? It can make a guy psychotic. After youve become psychotic, then neither the abused nor unabused women will have you. Any advice for nice guys?

"This too shall pass...."