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Jan 29, 2013, 12:25 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2013
Posts: 35
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Originally Posted by honeybee777
Ok about the thing about being mean and lacking empathy, LOL, you asking the wrong person LMFAO, I lack empathy hard core!!! But to tell him you had sex with your husband and he is desiring you the alerts me with red flags and I will tell you why, are you trying to make him jealous? That would be the only reason I would ever say something like that to an ex, LOL, idk i could be reading into it wrong ? tell me more  |
Hi honeybee! You are cheerful today! Yay!
I am serious. I was not trying to make my ex-bf jealous. I asked him if talking about my husband and me would make him jealous at some earlier time and he said no, but I was still cautious about it. It also made me doubt that he cared about me much because I was jealous thinking of him w/others. But I am married, so I figured okay. I did steer clear when it came to our sex life. Then one day he was talking in such a way that I was really lusting for him and I just said what I was thinking - that he was improving my sex life. Well, maybe he felt it was more of an insult to him to say it, since he does not really care that I am having sex w/my husband every night.
He would not apologize last night for the name calling so I do not forgive him. I am ambivalent about all of it. He has not called or anything else this morning. He is working and probably has a hangover, so I am thinking we are done. He continued on last night w/the offensive emails, but I have to admit that they were pretty sexy too in a base kind of way.
So what's up w/you and your husband? Is he still criticizing you? Did you sit him down and talk to him about it? -GC 
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