I think it's relatively easy to convey frustration or pain in writing. Maybe the difficulty lies in the reader.

(SAWE)when i next see you, my inclination is to not mention the fact that I emailed you, or even that I had that frustration or pain
And I think this is your responsibility, not your T's. You need to bring things to the session that cause you pain and/or that you want to talk about it. Your T can't do it for you,
I never said she should, Anne, or anything like that. I only said >> when I don't bring it up do you wonder about it? do you even remember that I felt that way, that I tried to share it with you?
and I think it's perfectly legit to wonder such a thing.

>> perhaps the lesson of this interaction or not with your T is to discuss the email contact issue. we already have.
Maybe one thing for you to consider is to stop emailing and just reserve your issues for session.
where do you get this? I rarely email her. Of course you wouldn't know that, would ya
I only email her when I can't work for the therapy issues are getting to me; say, a very disturbing dream; this time, a spiral.

Perhaps that would encourage you to talk more freely during sessions.
you don't know how freely I talk in sessions. Something that has come up once before is hardly A Trend.

Anne I am going to start a thread about journals, thanks for the reminder.