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Old Jan 29, 2013, 08:40 PM
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Honey he is ABUSING YOU! What in the heck is going on? He keeps texting women, and of COURSE you don't like it! What woman would? Of course it makes you angry. And he keeps doing it! And you ask him to stop and he calls you horrible names? Thats abuse!!! Then he goes ahead and THREATENS YOU with physical abuse??

What kind of "man" is he? Has he ever hit you? Or does he just threaten you? Honey, you need to get out of there.

Do you think, by chance, that marital counseling would help? From the sounds of him, I really doubt it because he sounds like the kind of man who thinks he's right about everything. I doubt he would listen to any counselor, but it's worth asking him about. Who knows what he might say. But ask him. See if he'd go. If he will, then make an appointment ASAP.

If he won't, then you should get OUT of there as soon as you can! He's abusing you. And you have children, right? Take those kids, and run. And make SURE you file papers in court for CHILD SUPPORT. He's got to help pay for those kids!! I hope you have somewhere to go --- perhaps your parents, or friends -- just somewhere until you get on your feet. Yes, it will be difficult. But you CAN'T bring up those kids around him or they will think that talking to women like that is acceptable !! They will think that ABUSE is acceptable and of course it's NOT. Don't bring your kids up in that environment! Children learn what they live!

Best of luck sweetie, and God bless. keep me posted, will you please! I really care. Hugs, Lee
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