I think she would come. I believe her care is genuine and i think that, within reason, she would honor special requests and/or accommodate special circumstances. If I were in the hospital dying or something I can't imagine her saying "no, I will not come, but i hope you have a great death." Okay, that sounds totally morbid, but you get the point. When I was having health problems earlier this year, she got teary-eyed and I could feel her concern; I can only imagine she would be similarly emotional if I were truly on the brink.