Hi, thanks, your post relieved a lot on many points.

You're right that I am from traditional old value type of family. They never allowed to me to date in high school. And letting any girl (even if neighborhood friend) come in house was another restriction even though i have 2 elder sisters and their friends used to come in home. but my parents used to dictate what type of friends i should have and how they should look and talk (yes, that bad).

They have this mindset of having kids only for the oldage support. And they do all they can to mold them to keep them around themselves in fear not to lose them. I found this mindset out when they were doing the same things to my nephew like they do to me like suggesting not to go to trip and even for swimming etc.

However their actions do made me introvert to some extent and i did learned some skills on my own. I did learned about laundry, cooking, and some other indoor skills. I also started taking some work via web (outsourcing) when i was in 10th class and earned some money, so banking and financial skills learned on my own (yes, Internet helped a lot).

Sadly I don't know how to drive car. I do have license for bike (which i learned only for one day) and then never touched again till date. so yes, on that side i am falling a lot.

I guess I have to learn a lot of things and have to make up for lost time. I guess I'll be getting lot of things late including marriage because this type of torn mindset wont' help with new relationship.

I am just not sure whether to consult doctor for this because these thoughts don't let me concentrate and considering the issue at hand, this looks more of social emotion problem than psychological, so i don't know how come doctor will help for this.

Thanks.