i have been hesitant to post about voids. .. I don't know why-- Voids has been another topic on my mind lately...
Been reading a few things... just thought I would share some..
And not sure where exactly this goes, for me PTSD? Emotions? Better Self Esteem? Other Treatment? So move where it shall be needed.
http://www.ahalmaas.com/Articles/schwartz.htm
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" "Everybody around you, wherever you go, is trying to fill holes, and people feel threatened if you don't try to fill yours in the same way. When a person is not trying to fill his holes, it tends to make other people feel their own holes. This occurs because you are going against the current, and the contrast will be felt. You don't go along with many of the things people want to do and like. And that makes people feel uncomfortable."
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"We could do meditations, certain exercises, and everybody could feel wonderful things. However, these will not last unless the person actually confronts his deficiencies, his holes, and goes through them. It is not a simple process, nor a short or easy one."
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pfft... "simple" my behind.. but still-- some things can be taken from it
http://www.positivecalm.com/filling-...d-inner-peace/
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It is good to acknowledge what the missing piece is and actually accept the current situation without attachment or resentment. By acceptance of what is and by being OK with it, we are creating a space for healing to happen.
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#3. Filling the void.
You can’t fill the gap between what you have and what you are being and what you want to have and be, by focusing on what is missing. We can fill the void by accepting everything that we currently are and have. By focusing on things that we are able to influence and do in this current moment. By really making everything that we currently treasure in life bigger and more dominant to the point that we can simply forget that what is missing. So to fill the void we have to deliberately focus on all we can find in our life that we like.
Once we can do that, we immediately join the flow of life and our point of attraction changes, this is so important to know my friend.
Once you feel naturally uplifted you will not reach for those harmful substances, which can make your life a misery.
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and heck why not another??
http://dosesofhope.wordpress.com/201...illing-a-void/
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Whatever your void is, you can’t run away from it forever. It will eventually catch up with you and knock you down.
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FILLING THE VOID
Now that you recognize your void and hopefully shared it, the next step is finding healthy ways to fill it. Most people have a void and insecurity in some area of their lives, so be assured you are not alone. When filling your void, be sure to keep balance in mind since even positive activities can become unhealthy and addictive. One of my favorite fillers is exercise, it doesn’t matter what type of exercise, just get active. Fill the void with a hobby, home project, volunteering, or any healthy passion that you have which gives you joy. I find that giving back to the community and serving others in need can be a wonderful void filler.
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