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Old Jan 30, 2013, 06:21 AM
sittingatwatersedge sittingatwatersedge is offline
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Originally Posted by earthmamma View Post
I don't think T replying to my emails is 'wiping my nose'. Not all emails are about a runny nose. I find that sort of attitude a defence against being vunrable & about fear of rejection.
No one mentioned you, EM. in fact two people who have posted on this thread have stated that their T has always replied to all their emails.

now that you bring it up - I think you said something like (paraphrase) I don't mean to brag, but my T has always answered - gee I guess that does sound like you think it's something to brag about (whether it is or isn't, I have no opinion).

All I know is my own situation; if I have a crisis and T is there, that is what I think is most important. No I don't demand that she answer everything I send, but since I only email when something is up, like a bad dream or a spiral, then yes I am reaching out, needing her reply; and not getting a reply is going to cause a reaction in me. that's just the way I am.