>> SAWE I really appreciated your comment about not knowing that she's ignoring you, just knowing she hasn't answered. That's so logical and it's taken me a long time to think like that.
actually one of the other PC people told me that in this thread - !!

I too, often have a reaction as I only reach out when I really need help. Though I used to think it was all about me, why me, and all that. I think by having my T not answer me sometimes, that it's got me to this place of understanding that the lack of reply is usually more about T and not me. So, yay for T's who sometimes "ignore". Er, I don't think I'll pass that pearl of wisdom onto my own T though. you made me grin at this Nightlight thank you

I always bring this stuff up though. I'm not very good at letting it go, but it has helped me to move forwards. I hope whatever happens at your next session, that everything works out for the best.
thank you!