I plan to get back into therapy. I went before when I was struggling with depression in my teen and I found one therapist that really helped. Unfortunetly I lost my insurance back then and had to stop going. I meet my wife when I was 19struggling and she was a very positive influence in my life. For a couple years qhen ww first dated I can say I felt truely happy and content with my life. After a couple years of dating we got married. Around the time I got married I started working on getting my engineering degree. For about 5 years I was working and going to school full time. What little time I had left I spent with her. It caused a strain in our releatiinship and I feel we aren't as close as we were 5 years ago. Now that school is over and I have time to think, all of these feeling I never fully dealt with are resurfacing. Me and my wide still have a very good releationship and we dont fight very often. About the only point contention is my reluctance to have children and sex is not as frequent as she would like. When we first dated we had sex everyday, and now it is like twice a month. I think depression and stress from finishing school sqaushed my labido.