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Originally Posted by jcl76
I have lost faith not only because of this but life in general. I am 37 never married. Not to sound arrogant, but I am attractive guy. Extremley faithful. Have a huge sense of humor. I am great with kids. I care and love selfessly, and everyone always ask why am I single. I have lost the desire to ever be in a realtionship again unless its with her if she gets her issues worked. Its the unknown of that happening that scares me.
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It sounds like you have not been in many relationships yourself and do not know or respect yourself very well. You have to know yourself well before you can give to another, otherwise, you can lose yourself as you have experienced. Losing yourself is not good for you or for another. This woman is not a loving, caring woman and you cannot fix her; you need to fix yourself, get some therapy/self-introspection. You cannot find and fix yourself by trying to fix other people, they are "out there" and you need to work on "in here".