I actually have been. I know myself well, but still make bad positions to end up with the wrong one so to speak. And yes..... I loose myself along the way. I am very selfless and care to much to fault where I sacrifice my own health for it. Like I said to a fault. I am trying to follow the rule to take of me first and foremost, and that should in return be good for a mate. When the right one comes along, we should bring the best out in each other. Thats where I want to focus as I date and simply know when to cuts ties early when I know the potential could be not good down the road. Make sense?
Again thank you as well for your honesty. I need that a lot.
Next time I do see my therapist, I am going to tell her to quit being so nice!!!!! These are the things i know about myself but need to hear people to drive it home with being blunt.
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Originally Posted by Perna
It sounds like you have not been in many relationships yourself and do not know or respect yourself very well. You have to know yourself well before you can give to another, otherwise, you can lose yourself as you have experienced. Losing yourself is not good for you or for another. This woman is not a loving, caring woman and you cannot fix her; you need to fix yourself, get some therapy/self-introspection. You cannot find and fix yourself by trying to fix other people, they are "out there" and you need to work on "in here".
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