I'm so sorry it's come to this, but your husband started this by NOT keeping you informed AT ALL about the finances. He didn't see fit to include you on any decision making regarding finances or other decisions, and when you asked he got angry. So what were you supposed to do? KILL him? Now when you want to arrange guardianship for your daughter he has the NERVE to get MAD? How dare he! He has NEVER shown any interest in taking care of this girl, or helping you out at all so how dare he even say ONE word about you doing this! About this time, I think I'd pack his bags and throw his butt out of the house. He has treated you shabbily over the years -- insisting everyone pick up stakes because he didn't do what HE was supposed to do and talk to the finance company and try to save the house. What made him think that anyone wanted to move just because HE wanted to move back with MOMMY. Of course your kids wouldn't want to move! That would be cruel to yank them away from their friends.

This guy is selfish big time. He seems to think only of himself. I don't know if marriage counseling would help or not. He sounds like one of those guys who wouldn't listen to a counselor, but it's worth a try. Ask him and see if he'll go. My bet is he won't. But he might surprise me. LOL

Just don't let him continue to walk all over you my friend. You have rights too! You NEED to know about the finances. You should not be TOLD you're moving, but ASK if you would move or would like to move. And as far as your daughter goes, you have every RIGHT to make the arrangements since he's never shown any interest in anything. So go for it. But don't give away your power. Don't be a doormat. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee