Hi s4ndm4n2006, thanks for your response. I think you are right about him being passive-aggressive. Did you read any earlier posts? I am just curious as to whether you, as a non-HPD, think I was being thoughtless and, well, mean to my ex-bf w/what I said.

Here is the earlier post. I am wondering if you think that I lack empathy. I am constantly having trouble with determining whether I have been unkind, even cruel at times. I would appreciate your thoughts. Thanks. -GC

"My ex-bf got mad at me and said some really mean stuff to me. "Wh#re, Sl#t, etc." Sounds like a bad thing, but I think I can ignore him now which is good. Men are a trip. He's trying to get something going w/me although I am married, talking about sex again and again, then resents or despises me for talking about sex I just had w/my husband. I told him that he was making me crazy w/desire and that he was improving my sex life. Well? What did he think I was doing? Saving myself for him?! Tell me the truth, honeybee, was that mean? Seriously, I did not think so. But I do know sometimes HPDs don't empathize very well. -GC. "

Sorry for the slight on men. I did not mean all men. -GC