I'll do my best
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Originally Posted by Grace Claire
"My ex-bf got mad at me and said some really mean stuff to me. "Wh#re, Sl#t, etc." Sounds like a bad thing, but I think I can ignore him now which is good. Men are a trip. He's trying to get something going w/me although I am married, talking about sex again and again, then resents or despises me for talking about sex I just had w/my husband. I told him that he was making me crazy w/desire and that he was improving my sex life. Well? What did he think I was doing? Saving myself for him?! Tell me the truth, honeybee, was that mean? Seriously, I did not think so. But I do know sometimes HPDs don't empathize very well. -GC. "
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It's going to be an issue when you talk to a man about sex period. He's going to be aroused and want to talk about it more but .. I might add, he won't want to hear about sex other than with him which is natural. The thing is, if there is an empathy issue, it's his empathy, not yours. If he's going to get upset about you talking about sex with your husband, then he's holding a double standard. In other words it's ok for him to do it but not you (talk about sex with others)