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Old Jan 30, 2013, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Asiablue View Post
I feel like i'm on the precipice of this huge canyon of grief and i'm scared of it. I need my T more than ever, yet she is withdrawing more and more from me, no more emails, telling me in no uncertain terms she'll never be anything more to me that a T, a professional not a mother, etc ouch!

i feel like i might drown in sadness.
You might want to play with the idea that you might need a therapist with a different orientation. Someone who is willing to really be "in" it with you. I think it's called 'supportive' therapy.

You shouldn't walk away from session feeling more alone. You should walk away feeling lighter. If that's not happening on a *most* of the time basis, then this therapist's orientation/philosophy etc. may not be a good fit for you.
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