I don't know how old you both are, but it sounds as if each of you is still very much part of your parental guides in your lifestyle. The day will come when you will realize that you have all the good things that your parents intended for you to absorb in your inner self and that each of you needs to break out on your own and establish your home and stability in an atmosphere of real love--if that's what you both genuinely believe you have together.

Religious views are important in life, in my view, and you may wish to talk to a minister from both your faith and your loved one's faith. That might be the biggest thing you need to resolve to determine if you're right for each other.

I wish you much happiness either way the ministers feel is best for your health and contentment.