Sorry it has taken me so long to respond. I went to my psychiatrist yesterday and she diagnosed me with vaginismus. I feel trapped,m as though heavy sedation is the only way to go, otherwise, the ob-gyn won't be able to do anything :/ I did make an appointment with an ob-gyn. They said that might offer sedation there, so I am hoping that they will. My first appointment is this friday, but they are only going to talk to me first. My heart was racing just from calling the doctor office.