What a terrible position, and the man is clearly confused and unthoughtful towards you. Someone who treats you this way, and also threatening to have you evicted just for speaking up about your hurt & anger is not the actions of a man worthy of you.

What do YOU want to do? Do you want to get out? Is there any way that you can make this happen, even if it takes a few months? The reason why I ask is that perhaps you can shut your emotions down towards him so he can no longer get to you, and just keep teeth gritted until you can get out. In a kind of self-preservation way, if you know what I mean. This woman sounds like a conman, and I really do hope that he wakes up...

And please do not blame yourself. You were not to know - its the actions of someone else that has made this bad, not you. Please please be kind to you!

Hugs.