In my personal relationships, I'm much like you, Lola. I take it a bit further - others don't have to be demonstrably unhappy with me. I tend to think others are pretty much most of the time. I'm terribly insecure and am usually convinced that whatever the problem is (even if there really is no problem at all), it's my fault.

Professionally, it comes from my successes and accomplishments, although even there, I tend to think my successes and accomplishments are more a matter of luck and my ability to fool other people into thinking I have a clue.

Is it any wonder that I see T twice/week?