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Originally Posted by Gaijin
My guess would be insecurity. Your whole post screams out that word.
Why else would you keep asking "what's wrong with me?" while protesting your self-satisfaction with yourself, marriage, career, etc.?
Incidentally, not all men are turned on by tall, stork-like women in high-heels, sorry. Sometimes people will stare for other reasons than being filled with desire.
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In this post, Gaijin did what your T should have been doing instead of feeling baffled, namely, put you in touch with reality. You do not have a sexual addiction because addiction is something that ruins the life of the addict and you would get high scores for both functioning and life satisfaction. Your problem is that you are out of touch with reality. If you honestly believe that day in and day out every man in your office goes to work primarily to enjoy seeing you, you are out of touch with reality. If you have reached the age of 28 believing that you are the only woman on this planet who has managed to seduce her father's friend, you are, likewise, out of touch with reality. That seems to be your core problem. But I am not sure it even needs fixing for now. Eventually though it would become a concern because, I can tell you from experience, coquettish old ladies with excessive makeup ellicit only pity if even that.
I would also take MCMI if I were you to learn your personality profile. That would be instructive.