I think the key to good sex is honesty and openess (+ love/lust/sexual desire). And also figuring out what you find enjoyable. My wife likes to use a vibrating egg to stimulate her clit as we are having sex. She usually has 2to or 3the big orgasms that way. I would know if she was faking because her vaginal muscles contract and sometimes she squirts. She also makes this sound I can't describe when everything done there is super sensitive.

I would try and find out what works for you. Exploring eachothers sexualty can be a very amazing experience.