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Originally Posted by Onward2wards
Thanks. I won't rage away at you!
Sins of omission ... I know hindsight is 20/20, but I see a lot of things I could/should/ought to have done better or differently in the past (I know, it's bad to "should" on oneself, lol) and in those moments, I remember having the desire to act, but then I just didn't, always playing it too safe, not being assertive, or thinking things wouldn't work out. What bothers me is that I STILL do it. It's true that we regret the things we don't do more than the things we do.
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Yes, we do regret the should haves more than the hey, I really ****ed that ups. At least the **** ups took place.
You know that you still do it. Is it a stretch, haha, to kick yourself in the *** the next time a should oportunity arises. I know it is.
I should have and shouldn't have done a lot of things,,,we all have.
Regrets of missed possibilities/ inaction will tear you to pieces.
Please go for it. If it is a major mistake than you'll be just like the rest of us and we somehow get over most of our mistakes.
I'm going to PM you so I don't lose sight of this thread...I really want to continue this conversation
I do have to go to bed now though.
Please get some good sleep and we will talk sometime tomorrow.
Hugs and hope and all that good stuff.
Night