Hugs, Sam. I too have little to offer you, and I also appreciate your wise comments , but I relate to your dilemma. It is often the way that we are able to help others but not find the way to help ourselves. Like you said, there are often no real answers, but being able to vent really does seem to help.... vent all you like. We will say what we can to comfort you. Then when we are down, we can come vent too....works for me