I try.. remind them that I don't feel well, to please behave... hubby's just so unempathetic it's ridiculous. He went out with friends, got home and went to bed. But took a minute to let me know how pissed he was that I got nothing done and how I "liked" to sleep all day. I try so hard but it's never enough. Unemployed and useless!! AND sick... forget it!! Nothing I can do right.