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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
Other than that, although I must admit I got too bored to read the whole long post, you are just describing your set of tastes and practices that seems pretty neutral to me and I am not impressed. I can just say that I am immensely grateful to men such as Gaijin because they have enabled me, a medium height girl who cannot wear heels at all and wears jeans from Goodwill, to feel wanted and appreciated and admired.  |
I would take that over what she described in her post any day. And I am a 22 year old male.
Pinupdolly, I am not sure if you created this post looking for a serious intelligent response or not, but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and provide you with one. Yes, you do have a problem, but more than being a sexual problem you have an attention problem. From reading your post you can tell that you crave attention. The two can go hand-in-hand. Same with insecurity, which is also a problem you seem to have. Anyone who can sit there and rant about how great their life is probably doesn't really feel like they have such a great life. The whole post seems fake, not that it is not true but that you don't truly believe what you are saying. That isn't a desirable trait.
I don't know where the attention problems are stemming from, but they are there. I also don't know if it is curable with medication or if it is something you need to work on yourself. I can't help you there. Perhaps instead of bragging about how great your life is and how wonderful you are, you need to sit back and think about what makes you want to scream that to the world. That isn't being rude it is being serious and helpful. If you will come to the conclusion every one else has - that you are an attention seeker and there really is a problem. You have to admit that to yourself before anything can be done and at this point you don't seem to want to admit it to yourself. I will say one thing, being so blatantly obvious that you want attention will just give you less of it. You will find attention from some guys that like that kind of thing but the majority of people will turn their heads. That could be part of the problem, that you think showing how much you want attention will give it to you when really it won't.
We don't judge here and you do have something wrong, so I do wish you the best and hope you can admit your faults to yourself and then get help with them. Take care.