This is what he told me a couple days ago.
I quote my therapist almost exactly; "You do have something that makes people to feel uncomfortable in your presence. I do not blame you. It is not your fault. It is like children who were born disfigured and everyone avoids them, even their parents cannot deal with them and avoid them or get divorced. It is not the child's fault that was born disfigured, but it is not the people's fault that they avoid them either. That happens because the human capacity for dealing with children and issues like that is limited; it is natural for people to react that way."
Maybe hate is a hard word, but he definitely does not like me. It is not the first time he says something hurtful.