I think she is self medicating, because she also suffers from depression. She said it helps her feel better i doubt she will stop but I hope so. I told her we would stop together but you can never know unless your actually around her. I just hope she is being safe. And no she hasnt had any therapy for losing the baby she refuses to get professional help. So I lend an ear when she needs it and it seems to make her feel better so i hope in some way that Im helping.