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Originally Posted by Crescent Moon
It took a looong time for there to be enough experiences in our relationship.. but there came a time that I had one of those 'light bulb' moments. [...] I finally made the connection... and it dawned on me that I pay for my therapist's time... her expertise and skill... but no amount of money can "buy" her care. Or the affection I feel coming from her. Or the look in her eyes that tells me I have a place in her heart... which I find out about when she says "I saw such and such the other day and it made me think about you..."
. She allows me to text and email, as long as I don't expect an answer. That doesn't mean she won't, but I've promised to be okay with it if she can't or doesn't respond. Lots and lots of things have happened in our relationship that lets me know that I'm not just a scheduled slot on her calendar. She cares about me. She may be a bigger part of my life than I am of hers, but no one can convince me that I'm not part of her life. I've got my own spot in her heart, and I think her heart is big enough to hold her family, her friends, and her clients. And I like my spot, because it's mine.
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no, excellent posting. This is for you
the PC threads flow on and on, like water in a stream, but I wish so much I could hold onto some of them. This one for instance. I would keep it for reference when I feel like
(which I have, this week). Thank you.