I need a therapist more than I need another friend. I like my T a lot. But I don't know much about her outside of therapy. I do know she has a dog or two. I do not know if she's married. I do know what university she attended. I do not know a thing about her family life except she has a stepmother in another state.

Although I would love to spend more time with her cuz I really do enjoy our interaction (it's not always strictly therapy related), but $80.00 a pop prevents more contact. AND it would feel weird to see her outside of session.

I've learned (was difficult) to talk only about myself in therapy. A friendship is a 2 way street. How would I feel if I learned about my T's own psychological issues? A friend is there to support.

Nah, would rather let my T stay my T.