Beth, my suggestion is to not even think of what your in-laws want you to do. You do what YOU need to do. Hold your boundaries and let them deal. Your hubby should go down when HE feels he wants to be there. I don't know what it is with family that think they can dictate to you what you can and can't do! {{{{{{{{{Beth}}}}}}}}}}}}
Jenn and Mystry will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care of YOU, Girl! Ok?
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.