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hamster-bamster · Jan 31, 2013 at 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by AdviceSeeker81

Goodness no, I love my husband. As I said before, we are best friends, we are very well suited in every way...except this one. I may have to learn to live with it. It may be that he does not feel great about himself, which does not lend itself to feeling sexual. I am not really at the point where I want to tell him that it's therapy or nothing. I don't want to leave him. I don't want him to be a different person, but I don't want him to look at me like some cute little thing that should simply be cuddled.

if we was keeping up with you a few years back, that means at some point he thought of you as more than some cute little thing to be cuddled. That sheds some light on why he married you in the first place, and gives hope that you can eventually go back to how things were just several years ago.