Chunky 'dark' accessories helps me loads to look like Ophelia, even when at work!
Harley Quinn mask rings, skull earrings, studded arm bands... they do the trick. 3/4 sleeve bf blazers look hot with interesting shirts or printed T's and while I prefer them with great fitted jeans, they go very well with black pants. ADT is religous about dresscode, and sofar nobody has reprimanded me... also nailpolish is an excellent accessory, a bother to most mom's with babies, but well worth the effort. I usually where 2 colours at once, half the nail with colour straight down the middle, black and an outragous neon shade, that undoubtedy do NOT match anything I'm wearing. Neon nails and hair ties/clips are an asset to any boring out fit!