I apologize for not finding a current running thread for this... the suggestions for an ideal mental health site never fully loaded...
anyway...
DocJohn, how about two new forums, one for Guys Only and one for Gals Only?
It could be exactly that...guys post only or gals only..
OR anyone could BEGIN a thread (and reply back to it) in the opposite sex forum but only the others could post.
Ex. A guy has a question about why gals think or do such and such. Only gals (and the originating guy) could post in the thread.
This way, we can ask serious questions and not have the thread bog down by well intentioned same sex members' replies, guys don't have to be reading gal stuff in say, health support etc.,or like gals can read what the guys here are dealing with, without interfering in their conversation

Honor system of course!
What do you think?