what do you do when you constantly find out your boyfriend is lying about small things? i know he is lying because 1-i will have a feeling about it (and am always right) and he will admit it ONLY when we fight, and 2-his stories dont match when i snoop through his computer. his constant lies have made me lose all trust i have in him. i cant even talk to him about it because he just gets mad and turns the fight onto something that i have done to make him mad. i have been with him for a few years and it drives me crazy because i feel like i cant ask him anything without it being a lie..how can you trust someone to tell the truth when they have lied so much in the past? i found he was lying again today and i dont even know if i should confront him on it so it is just eating me up inside. even if i did confront him, he would never tell the truth until we are fighting. does anyone have any suggestions to how to deal with this - and please have a more elaborate answer then 'just leave him'.